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Become Next Season’s ‘Glue Guy’
A great way to become your team’s Glue Guy is to utilize what’s called an optimistic explanatory style as opposed to a pessimistic explanatory style when your team encounters those unforeseen and unexpected bumps in the road. Let’s first look at what an explanatory style is, and then how a pessimistic one differs from an optimistic one.
Explanatory Style - An explanatory style is a psychological attribute that indicates how people explain to themselves and others why they experience a particular event. Explanatory styles can be either optimistic or pessimistic. Three components—personal, permanent, & pervasive—make up one’s explanatory style. Let’s take a closer look at each of them and see how you can use an optimistic explanatory style to become your team’s Glue Guy.
Personal - This involves how a person explains where the cause of an event arises. For example, a player using a pessimistic explanatory style sees himself as the sole cause of an event. You might hear him say, "I always have trouble hitting that pitch.” In contrast, a player with an optimistic explanatory style would say, "I sometimes have trouble hitting that pitch, and the wind made it even more difficult today.”
Permanent - This involves how one explains the extent of the cause. A player with a pessimistic explanatory style would see the situation as unchangeable and comment to the team, “We never win games at this stadium.” On the other hand, a player with an optimistic explanatory style would say, “We may have lost more games than we won here in the past, but let’s turn that around today and get a win!”
Pervasive - This involves how one explains the extent of the effects. For example, if one of your starting pitchers is put on the disabled list, the player with the pessimistic explanatory style would comment, “That blows the rest of the season for us.” The player using an optimistic explanatory style would respond to that comment by saying, “Well, having him on the disabled list will hurt our team, but we can pick up the slack in lots of other ways.”
Make it Your New Year’s Goal to become Next Season’s Glue Guy!
Source: The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor
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